The state emblem of India carries a
quote from the Mundaka Upnishad, Satyamev
Jayate. It means, truth alone triumphs.
Truth, unfortunately, can be
unpalatable. I have seen doctors and close relatives of the terminally ill
hiding it from the patient. My 85 years old mother-in-law fought cancer
for eight months hoping to get well some day; but succumbed to the disease
within a month on being told what she was suffering from. Had someone kept the
mouth shut, she might have survived for some more months.
According to a Sanskrit verse, truth
must be spoken only when it is pleasing to others; though untruth, howsoever pleasant,
must never be spoken. This is the path of eternal morality, sanatana dharma.
Here is the verse or shloka:
Satyam Bruyat
Priyam Bruyat Na Bruyat Satyam Apriyam
Priyamcha Nanrutam Bruyat Esha Dharmah Sanatanan
Priyamcha Nanrutam Bruyat Esha Dharmah Sanatanan
So, one must exercise discretion in disclosing
the truth.
What about telling half-truths to gain
unfair advantage?
The rule of the cease-fire at sunset was
set aside on the fourteenth day of Mahabharata. Dronacharya was splendidly commandeering
the Kaurava army. He was spreading fear and destruction through his relentless
attacks. Even Ghatotkacha, Bhimsena’s famous son by his asura wife, was killed. Ghatotkacha and his troops of asuras, being strongest at night, had
destroyed thousands of Duryodhana’s men that night.
Chakravarti Rajagopalachari writes in
Mahabharata: “O Arjuna,” said Krishna, “there is none that can defeat this
Drona, fighting according to the strict rules of war. We cannot cope with him
unless dharma is discarded. We have no other way open. There is but one thing
that will make him desist from fighting. If he hears that Ashwatthama is dead,
Drona will lose all interest …”
Ashwatthama was the son of Dronacharya.
And so, Bhima killed an elephant called
Ashwatthama, and went roaring, “I have killed Ashwatthama!”
Dronacharya asked Yudhishthira, “Is it
true that my son has been slain?” He believed that Yudhishthira would never
utter an untruth.
Yudhishthira’s response was: Ashwatthama
Hatha, Iti Narova Kunjarova.
It meant: Ashwatthama has been killed.
Not the man but the elephant.
While the first part was heard, the
second part of the statement got drowned in the din. Drona threw away his
weapons and sat down on the floor of his chariot. Dhrishtadyumna swept off the
old warrior’s head with his sword. The half-truth led to a sequence of events,
finally resulting in a win for the Pandavas.
Many a times we hear half truths while
in an aircraft – “we are third in the take off priority assigned by the air
traffic controller” or something to that effect. The statement leads the
passengers to believe that the delay is not due to the carrier but due to
external factors; the fact that the aircraft should have reported earlier is
not disclosed. The US President Bill Clinton
indulged in half truth when he said, "I did not have sexual
relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky." Here he engaged in an equivocation fallacy
to deliberately indicate one particular meaning of the phrase "sexual
relations", while intending another meaning, in order to deliberately
mislead the court while still being able to later claim that "my
statements were technically correct."
Now, what about half-baked truths? I.e.,
truth based on insufficient facts.
The Hindi litterateur Vidyabhushan
Shrirashmi describes beautifully such a situation in his story ‘Siddhant Ka
Prashna’. Senior research officers in a research centre get agitated on
noticing four visitor chairs in a new colleague’s cabin. They object,
complaining that an additional chair deceptively enhances the status of the
colleague. A drama follows, leading to the resignation of the newcomer. It is
revealed that the fourth chair, a broken one, belonged to the peon assigned to
the newcomer, and the peon was on leave that day.
Claims about success in curbing black
money, success of the demonetisation scheme for Rs.1,000 and Rs.500 notes, growth
in GDP, inflation rate, are largely half-baked truths. Add some more facts and
data, and the claims appear hollow.
And then, there are plain untruths. Once
Akbar gave a horse to Birbal, asking him to teach flying to a horse in six
months. Birbal avoided incurring the immediate wrath of the emperor by
accepting the task. When asked why did he indulge in the untruth, his response
was, “Six months is a long time. I may die in six months. The emperor may
change his mind in six months. Or, who knows, the horse may actually learn to
fly in six months!”
Plain untruths are the norm with workmen
such as carpenters, tailors, mechanics, plumbers, masons, etc. Politicians take
the cake here. I have nothing personal in favour of or against any party or individual,
but BJP being the party in power and Narendra Modi being the Prime Minister,
some of their untruths are mentioned below:
1. Every citizen of India will receive
Rs.15 lakh in his bank account within 100 days of the BJP assuming power.
2. 2,00,00,000 jobs will be created every
year.
3. Inflation in the price of food grains
will be reversed.
4. Black money stashed in Swiss banks will
be brought back.
5. Dawood Ibrahim will be brought back to
India.
6. The cash crunch will be over in 50 days,
and if not, Modi should be hanged from the neck!
Whether you handle HR, operations,
sales, or any other responsibility involving people interaction, chances are
that you, too, manage the situation using ‘tact’, speaking more untruth and
half-truths than real plain truth. Believe me, on most of the occasions your
departure from truth would have been noticed, if not objected upon.
In my 35 years long career, whether I
handled sales, operations or headed something else, I made it a point to never
lie. Customers, students and colleagues became more agitated when I presented
the facts to them, but finally appreciated that I was someone they could rely
upon. It is amazing – while we expect others to be honest with us and tell the
truth, when it comes to us, we seek the comfort of untruth.
That leads us to the beginning of this
article – what about disclosing unpalatable truths? For example, what should be
told to a terminally ill person? I would prefer you to answer that. However,
when I met my terminally ill mother-in-law two months before her death, I
avoided the topic of illness, drawing her attention to the good things
happening in the family and likely to happen in the near future.
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